The Enargeia Gambit - Part 2
3 Secrets Houdini Knew Which Help You Grab, Hold and Funnel Attention
29 August, 2017
2. Make it Mysterious - Holding
Mystery is a strange beast. I often think about it like a high-wire balancing act.
Too much emphasis on the side that asks all the questions and you’ll fall off into a pit of existential doubt, confusion and the need for perpetual cliff hangers that can only ever build up to something that disappoints.
Too much emphasis on the other side, where there’s no mystery at all, and you’ll end up bored, unchallenged and full of clichéd, relentlessly predictable plotlines and paint-by-numbers story telling.
The truth is, the brain craves a certain amount of mystery. It’s what makes things interesting. If you were in a relationship where you could predict your partners every move, every sentence, every shift in their mood, everything they would complain about, everything they’d order from the same restaurant, you’d be driven mad.
So why should your work, your presentations or your personal life be like that? Why should you be in the same, comfortable, oil-slick lane that you’ve always been in? The obvious answer is, you shouldn’t be!
What Did Houdini Know?
Houdini knew that his milk can escape desperately needed some mysterious element to it. The cloth curtain he had his assistants raise served the purpose of asking more questions than it answered. Importantly, though, it didn’t fully explain how he accomplished his miracle. He could have just as easily shown the audience what he was doing behind the curtain, and it would have been as equally impressive, but he didn’t.
Why? Well… That’s just part of the mystery. And part of how you hold someone’s attention.
What You Can Do
I said in this week’s edition that “Success for us happens when you have the courage to be yourself and put your courageous ideas into action. Bringing ideas to life and grabbing attention, by their very nature, are courageous ideas that take the heart of an explorer, the mind of a champion and the core of a warrior. It might be scary, but I believe your message and your inner story deserves to be heard.”
It takes courage to leave your audience asking questions, but that’s what you have to be willing to do. Those questions mean that they’ll be thinking about you and your message long after you’ve left. It means they’ll be looking at your business card, trying to figure out the clue you left on it. It means they’ll have something to tell their friends about, or a reason to share our promotional video, or a reason to call you up or make an introduction the next time they think of someone in your field of expertise.
I really do believe that you have an amazing story to tell that the world deserves to hear, and adding mystery to that process is a wonderful way of starting to fulfil your potential. This is a huge, huge part of our Psychological Artistry Live! Day, and I’d love to see you there, beginning to learn just what to do and how to do it.
You can see more information about that here: mindsways.com/psychological-artistry.html
3. Make it Meaningful – Funnelling
Imagine I perform two tricks for you. Which one do you think has the chance for greater vivid descriptions, which one would make you pay more attention, and for longer, and which one would you be likely to tell your friends and family afterwards?
Trick Number 1: You pick a card out a deck. I tell you that it’s the nine of spades. I take a quick bow and the trick is over.
Trick Number 2: I tell you that “Ever since I was very young, I’ve had a crippling fear of the dark. The way I dealt with it, and still do every so often, is to try and listen to my parent’s downstairs and guess what they’re up to. Over time, I became quite good at it. I figured out which TV programmes they were watching, when they stopped to read a book, when they’d help themselves to a cheeky alcoholic drink after the kids went to bed.
“As I grew older, strange things started to happen. Not only could I tell which book they were reading, I could tell which chapter they were on and every so often, which page they stopped at. I could tell when they were watching the news, but I could also tell what colour the newsreader’s clothes were. I even got good at guessing which cards were going to come up in Play Your Cards Right!
“So, we’re going to try and recreate that here. I’m going to put this blindfold on, to simulate being in the dark, and you’re going to pick a card from this deck. I think, yes, it’s coming to me now, I think it’s a red card. And, it’s quite a high card, but not the highest. I think it’s a spade as well, and it’s definitely higher than a 5. Yes, I think it’s the seven. The seven of hearts?”
I hope you’ll agree with me that Trick Number 2 would be far more interesting and entertaining to watch. Not only does it lead to me revealing the card a bit slower, ramping up the tension of whether I get it right or not, but it builds on the first and second step of our 3 Secrets; make it matter and make it mysterious, and finally, make it meaningful.
Throw in some acting, a couple of jokes, and hopefully you’ll be on my side. The meaning and mystery in the first trick is almost entirely absent. It’s a get in, get it done, get out again kind of an approach. You’ll be hard pressed to find anyone who performs a magic trick like that.
How many presentations have you seen that echoes this sort of mentality? More than you’d like to count, I would imagine.
The mystery in the second trick, however, is in-built from the ground up. I’m giving you just enough information to start having you asking questions in your head, such as “How did the strange things start to happen? Why did it happen to him? Could I do the same if I tried? What else could he pick up on?”
By creating the gaps in my script where information is missing, I’m starting to shift the way you’re thinking. By using vivid descriptions, such as “cheeky alcoholic drink” and “crippling fear”, I begin to pull in your attention and build a visual world.
By giving my actions meaning, I’m starting to funnel your attention. You’re no longer focusing on the cards, you’re focusing on my blindfold. You’re no longer thinking if the cards are in a specific order, which they might be, but you’re thinking about how it feels to be picking up on the colour whilst I can’t see anything.
By telling you that I was afraid of the dark and still am, and then going on to place myself in the dark, I’m throwing some emotional chips in to this metaphorical poker game. What makes the second trick even more powerful is that I’m facing one of my fears right in front of you. I’m making you care about me, care about how I’m feeling at the time, adding to the mystery of the trick and tapping into something we all remember: being afraid of the dark.
You have a vested interest in me at this point, because you know more about me and my past. You want to see me succeed, because who wants to see someone succumb to their fears? You want to know if this is real, because somewhere, deep down inside, you want to be able to do it too.
By this point, hopefully you can see the power that a vivid description can have when you combine it with Attention Advantage principles. This is just the sort of stuff we give you as part of our Psychological Artistry Live! Day. You can see more information about that here: www.mindsways.com/psychological-artistry.html
What Houdini Knew
Houdini knew that when he was on stage, he wasn’t just an ordinary person any more. He was a miracle performer, yes, but he was also a Hungarian Jewish immigrant. He was a symbol for the great wave of people who had landed on the American shoreline with nothing but the clothes on their back and the American dream in their minds. He was the living, breathing embodiment of the little man overcoming obstacles in his way.
He showed us that no locks could keep him restrained, that no jail cell could keep him bound, that no pressure from a repressive system of judgements and limitations could limit the powers of the Powerful, the Amazing, the Greatest Magician Alive, Harry Houdini.
What he did wasn’t just magic, it was the epitome of hope for the swathes of newcomers to a strange new world. The way he performed, the scripts he used, the vivid language on the posters that you’d see for weeks before he came to town, all of them came to be an Enargeia in and of themselves for the optimism, the courage and the blinding faith of his generation.
What You Can Do
The fact that now, nearly 100 years after he died, you still know the name Harry Houdini, says a lot about the impact he had on the world. He inspired an age of magicians through his performances, what he stood for and through his courageous stunts. He knew a lot, and we should be able to make use of some of his wisdom.
So, what can you do to live up to his name and make something meaningful? Well, if you’ve got this far, you should know that the first two steps are vital to this process. Think about why people should care, then add something mysterious to keep their attention fixed on you. For the third step, think about what you actually want to say. What’s the point you want to make?
- Something about the state of well-being in today’s world?
- Something about the nature of human life?
- Something that will uplift the person watching?
- Something that will make the person watching stop and think?
- Something that will lead to courageous action?
- Something that will leave them entranced by an idea?
- Something that absolutely needs to be said, right now, by no one else but you?
Your meaning could be any, all, or none of these things. This is just a set of prompts to get you thinking about it.
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P.S. “You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.” – William Faulkner
About Author: Alexander Rowley
Alexander is a creative thinker, website designer, trained performer, experienced actor and magician, writer and stage director who produces online experiences, high design and adapts the materials used in training courses to deliver the best online experience. His history of stage acting and 10 years working behind the scenes delivers the highest quality performance and the best, cutting edge online technology available.